1. Love yourself as you love others.
2. Or love others as you love yourself.
1. Forgive yourself as you forgive others.
2. Forgive others as you forgive yourself.
As we have been talking a lot about exchange of energies, we would like to take it a step further.
You all know these saying as you see them above. Which one do you use?
Number 1 or number 2 and what is the difference.
The numbers 1 are within you, the numbers 2 are outside of you.
Let me explain. As you love others, you sent the energy to others.
As you love yourself you sent the energy inwards to yourself.
Which is the right way?
As you are all learning about oneness.
Number 1 would be the right way, as it says love yourself, you love yourself but you also love others, as you are one great being connected with each other, that love moves to the others as well.
As you sent love to others, you sent out part of your energy to others, it is only one way.
If you love yourself, you move inward and the effect is that the love you sent is shared with others.
A sharing within the energy, an exchange within the energies as you are all one, that moves both ways.
The same with forgiving, as you forgive yourself, you move inward and from there you have forgiven the others.
Now as we are changing this and balancing more, there are still certain steps.
As we cannot say at this time, one, gift to yourself as you gift to others, or two, gift to others as you gift to yourself.
Think about buying a present for a friend, if you go for gift to others as you gift yourself, you would buy something that would gift, and would like yourself. While the fact is that the friend might not like what you gift yourself.
And if you go for gift to yourself as you gift to others, the friend would be upset as you have bought something for yourself and are not giving it to your friend.
We can say allow yourself to receive as you receive from others.
Or allow others to receive as you receive yourself.
What is there to receive if others are not gifting. You can ask to receive certain things, but what does that mean.
You let others know what you need, and allow yourself to receive.